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First Date Advice for Lesbian Dating

Going on your first lesbian dating adventure is a great experience.  However, there are many ladies out there who are new to the online dating scene or even the lesbian dating scene in general who have no idea what to do or expect on a first date.  Some things that you should know before dating are good places to meet up, what to talk about on a first date, how you know that there will be a second date and any other lesbian dating advice.

When meeting someone for the first time, it is a good idea to meet in a public place.  This means that there will be other people around you for your safety.  However, you may not want to meet somewhere like Times Square where there are people all over the place since dates should be intimate.  You may want to try a local coffee shop or even a simple bar.  This also gives you a simple out instead of having to go through an entire movie or meal with a person that you are not attracted to.

First date topics should be fun.  You do not have to get all serious and talk about the future.  You can talk about the things you like to do and what your date enjoys doing.  The best part about this is that you can tell if the person is interested because they will say “I would love to do that someday” or “Next, week I’m going, you should come along too”.  This is instant second date material.  Other things you can talk about are funny things that have happened in life, family, work and anything else that will keep the conversation fun and exciting.

When you meet someone in person for the first time after dating online, it is usually hit or miss.  You will know whether you want to see this person again and there should be some signs that lead you to second date approval. The best way to go is if you liked the person to say you would like to go out again or to say I’m glad I met you but I don’t think it is going to work out.  Be direct in Lesbian dating, you may make a new friend at least this way.

Other tips for Lesbian dating are to experiment with new dates.  Do not limit yourself to one person.  Play the field to see who is out there.  You may have just recently opened up about your sexuality so you may be able to find great friends, mentors and especially dates when you date online.